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LOVE, LIKING AND RELATIONSHIP

09 Jul

 

 It has been a daily experience that youth today are not aware of the exact meaning of the love, liking and relationship. They usually take it as if these could be used interchangeably. Thus they fall prey to many pitfalls in their daily lives. Mere liking by the one party does not mean that he or she is loved. Liking is similar to having a fleeting relationship based entirely on conjectures and a liaison that does not stand the test of the time and washes off when the showers of a test is done it this liaison. The best thing for us all is not to take this relationship or liaison seriously. But it has been observed the youth nowadays fall prey in understanding the true meaning of these in real life situation. Firstly, love is the prime factor in life. Life cannot run smoothly without love. It is based on honesty, sincerity, truthfulness and all the fine qualities that a person should possess for living a life worth living. A person who is in love is ready to forgive and forget for the sake with whom he / she is in love with. In other words love is truth in its refined form. It does not ask for anything in return. It springs from your emotions, heart related and deep rooted. No ‘shower of test’ can wash it, if this love is put to test under different conditions and situations. It shines even in quagmire like a lotus in the muddy waters. It does not demand anything. It is a sacred content based on giving and expecting nothing in return. Love of God is the prime mover in our life. If we take one step in love to Him, He responds by taking ten steps towards you. That is the truth based loved towards our Creator for us all. You love Him or not He is ever providing you everything without distinction the bounties of nature or whatever you ask for. The parents’ love for their siblings is the another form of love which is also based on the truth and above suspicion. If we suspect their love, then, you are in for trouble, you will face upheavals in day to day life. Then there is the love we shower to our life partner. This is the sacred duty of everybody to have this sort of love for meeting our psychological and physiological requirement for reproduction and maintaining emotional stability in our life. This love is based solely on trust and truth. In this sort of love, you have to trust the other party in its entirety. But here care and caution should be exercised that this ‘love’ should not be misconstrued that is when it is merely liking we reach to the conclusion that it is ‘love’. This is a huge trap in which the youth of today is falling and spoiling their today for better tomorrow. It is worth saying that when you are emotionally involved with somebody, take one thing into consideration whether it is not based on fleeting feelings, outer emotional upsurge, obsession which just go off with time. It is not time tested love. It is not one sided and there is no selfish end. Understand this love by trial and error method – putting into effect all the elements into strict test and when you are sure that the other party is sincere then fall whole hog into that love. It is the true one asking you nothing in return but giving in its immensity. This kind of love bestows you enormous stability in your life for livingLOVE, LIKING AND RELATIONSHIP It has been a daily experience that youth today are not aware of the exact meaning of the love, liking and relationship. They usually take it as if these could be used interchangeably. Thus they fall prey to many pitfalls in their daily lives. Mere liking by the one party does not mean that he or she is loved. Liking is similar to having a fleeting relationship based entirely on conjectures and a liaison that does not stand the test of the time and washes off when the showers of a test is done it this liaison. The best thing for us all is not to take this relationship or liaison seriously. But it has been observed the youth nowadays fall prey in understanding the true meaning of these in real life situation. Firstly, love is the prime factor in life. Life cannot run smoothly without love. It is based on honesty, sincerity, truthfulness and all the fine qualities that a person should possess for living a life worth living. A person who is in love is ready to forgive and forget for the sake with whom he / she is in love with. In other words love is truth in its refined form. It does not ask for anything in return. It springs from your emotions, heart related and deep rooted. No ‘shower of test’ can wash it, if this love is put to test under different conditions and situations. It shines even in quagmire like a lotus in the muddy waters. It does not demand anything. It is a sacred content based on giving and expecting nothing in return. Love of God is the prime mover in our life. If we take one step in love to Him, He responds by taking ten steps towards you. That is the truth based loved towards our Creator for us all. You love Him or not He is ever providing you everything without distinction the bounties of nature or whatever you ask for. The parents’ love for their siblings is the another form of love which is also based on the truth and above suspicion. If we suspect their love, then, you are in for trouble, you will face upheavals in day to day life. Then there is the love we shower to our life partner. This is the sacred duty of everybody to have this sort of love for meeting our psychological and physiological requirement for reproduction and maintaining emotional stability in our life. This love is based solely on trust and truth. In this sort of love, you have to trust the other party in its entirety. But here care and caution should be exercised that this ‘love’ should not be misconstrued that is when it is merely liking we reach to the conclusion that it is ‘love’. This is a huge trap in which the youth of today is falling and spoiling their today for better tomorrow. It is worth saying that when you are emotionally involved with somebody, take one thing into consideration whether it is not based on fleeting feelings, outer emotional upsurge, obsession which just go off with time. It is not time tested love. It is not one sided and there is no selfish end. Understand this love by trial and error method – putting into effect all the elements into strict test and when you are sure that the other party is sincere then fall whole hog into that love. It is the true one asking you nothing in return but giving in its immensity. This kind of love bestows you enormous stability in your life for living life meaningfully. Secondly, liking is the one which we may have for animate or inanimate things. Today we may like one thing and the other day our liking may differ. It is based entirely on our mental thinking and way of taking things. Sometimes we fall into prey of interpreting liking as love and relationship. Thirdly, relationship is also one of the important factor in our day to day life. We have to maintain equanimity and cohesion in our life for living it smoothly and without any internal and external pressures. We are constraint to maintain relationship with people around us. This relationship is true barometer of our current familiarity with the people who count in our life. But it may or may not be construed as love based. Relationship may be temporary one and may also go on due to compulsions of ‘time and space’. It has also been observed that a relationship when followed with sincerity and honesty may convert into lasting bond of love. This love gives true colour to our life and provides us emotional stability. life meaningfully. Secondly, liking is the one which we may have for animate or inanimate things. Today we may like one thing and the other day our liking may differ. It is based entirely on our mental thinking and way of taking things. Sometimes we fall into prey of interpreting liking as love and relationship. Thirdly, relationship is also one of the important factor in our day to day life. We have to maintain equanimity and cohesion in our life for living it smoothly and without any internal and external pressures. We are constraint to maintain relationship with people around us. This relationship is true barometer of our current familiarity with the people who count in our life. But it may or may not be construed as love based. Relationship may be temporary one and may also go on due to compulsions of ‘time and space’. It has also been observed that a relationship when followed with sincerity and honesty may convert into lasting bond of love. This love gives true colour to our life and provides us emotional stability.

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Posted by on July 9, 2011 in Uncategorized

 

2 responses to “LOVE, LIKING AND RELATIONSHIP

  1. deepankermishra

    July 15, 2011 at 9:37 am

    A Great Relationship Happens When Two People or many people Who Truly Understand Each Other and Love Each Other for Who They Are Come Together and Create Something Stronger.
    Defiantly that is true Relationship

    May Be I am right,Mr.Lal

     
  2. Harbans

    July 15, 2011 at 10:14 am

    Millions of thanks for your positive comments. Keep it up.

     
 
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