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ARGUMENTS

26 Apr

ARGUMENTS

The main question is, whether any irrational argument could be won by anybody?

It is rightly been said that a sagacious person will prefer discussion over argument for that person knows that nobody can win an argument. It goes on and on. The end result of an argument is end of friendship / intimacy. It starts over a petty thing and slanging match just goes on nonstop. Neither side concedes defeat. Sometimes it leads to acrimony and bad blood. Arguments between the spouses, over small matter, just snowballs into a biggest flare up, occasionally breaking up the fabric of the household. A well-knit house alas! just breaks up.

Arguments for a seat in the bus goes on till after the journey to the destined place just ends and the poor chair just stares at the faces of the argumentative parties. Arguments over trifles results in fights resulting in disproportional consequences is seen every other day.

Arguments are the negative traits of not only humans but also that of the animal world. In fact, it can better be termed as animal like trait which unfortunately none wins finally. We must have witnessed the snarls between the two dogs over the possession of a bitch which just looks on helplessly. In this fight both the dogs just fight it out resulting in blood bath on both sides. Here too there is no perceptible winner!

ARGUMENTS

Internal Strife spun out of control,

Incident which ought to have been swept under the carpet,

Has gone to the public domain,

Takes untold toll on both sides through fruitless arguments,

Starts from soft tinkering with words,

Over matter so trifling,

To a full fight resulting.

Spreading like fire untamed,

Engulfing even luckless around.

Arguments on a matter in the household,

Between spouses on a matter so insignificant,

Not controlled in time goes hurting,

To the wellbeing of home well knit.

Disagreeing with interviewer,

And sticking to the points stubbornly,

Thus burning the very bridge,

Which could have made him to cross over,
For cornering a lifelong career.

Just not budging even an inch,

Arguments with a person unknown,

Even Universal Truth so widely agreed,

Is not agreeable to the fellow in question!

Arguments with fastidious one is a waste of time,

Who knows only how an argument could be won anyhow!

Loses friends in hordes,

And earns enemies in the bargain,

While in power the ‘chair’ speaks for that fellow,

But when out of it,

Persons suffered at his hands take control,

And you can fathom what would be his fate,

For by-product of hate is only further hate,

That person realizes the consequence of his folly but too late,

He faces music of his own making now.

HARBANS KHAJURIA

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Posted by on April 26, 2013 in Inner Thoughts, Poems

 

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7 responses to “ARGUMENTS

  1. Harbans

    April 26, 2013 at 10:52 am

    Woefully it has been seen that in day to day life, we observe small tiffs just results in big flare ups. This is equally so in our families and at work places and others informal institutions. We have to be very careful that these arguments do not go out of hand because no one has ever won an argument. Kindly comment.

     
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    • Harbans

      May 9, 2013 at 11:56 am

      I have learnt all from people like you, the experience that life has given me, the gentle nudges which I have got did not deter me but to turn back and retrospected what was my fault. Having done that, came back to the person concerned, gently and humbly asked for the reason for that ‘gentle nudge’. If that person is good enough, he / she mentioned the reason otherwise if there is no reply forthcoming then no problem even then because if that person is not there my CREATOR is still there to assist me. And this has made me to march on non-nonchalantly.

      Thanks for your remarks. I get strength from comments you make.

       
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      May 13, 2013 at 8:08 am

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