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BIDDING ADEIU IS A PAINFUL EXPERIENCE

04 Nov

BIDDING ADEIU IS A PAINFUL EXPERIENCE

BUT CANNOT BE WISHED AWAY

 

Emotion is the important traits of living beings. Even animals; plants and birds exhibit their emotions if we care to find out. Will to interpret these emotions is the only factor in this respect. But humans’ emotions can be deciphered easily because they can express verbally or through other cues which cannot go undetected. When a person feels disappointed we can read it on his / her face or when that person is in happy mood it could easily be read on his her face easily.

 

Whenever we depart from our love ones we certainly get emotional – sometimes miss one or two heart beats and on other times shed a few drops of tears

Bidding audio is way of this world. This may be:-

  • When we go to the work place for eking out a living.
  • A girl leaves her home after marriage to her in-law’s home. This is the way of the world and important to keep the world ticking.

 

BIDDING ADIEU IS A PAINFUL EXPERIENCE

 

Bidding adieu to the one ye love the most

 Is indeed poignant,

It may be for a limited period of time

Period known or for good.

 

A lass after conclusion of marriage rituals,

Departing from her parental residence,

For in-laws dwellings,

Leaving the home and hearth she cherished most,

From her birth till completion of marriage bows

With eyes brimming with tears

Like unstopping torrential rains

Striking deep into the hearts

Of one and all.

 

A woman or a man  perforce,

Departing for good from the spouse,

With whom had everything shared,

Unluckily  disharmony resulted

Due to not understanding each other’s needs

Or may be unreasonable expectations

And consequent final parting ways.

 

A young man or woman parting from his nears and dears,

Here no one wants to show tears,

Such that the parting ways may be easier

For this parting is to eke out a living

For himself / herself and all other dependents

And thus traversing to places unknown.

Yet heart aching with hurt

Emotions soaring sky high

But outwardly all exhibiting poise,

But with muted unease

Yet interiors of all are troubled hugely.

 

Then final parting is the most poignant of all

When we part ways for good with relations of ours

Who for years looked after us so dearly

Felt pained when thee felt pain

Prided hugely at every step forward in thy life span. 

Oh! Our Creator, make every departure of ours,

Not hurting but comforting,

So that departure of every kind becomes a pleasant exercise.

 

 

 

We leave this earth for good after we complete our life span on this planet / after finishing the journey of our life. This final parting is heartrending. We remember every moment spent with the person concerned.

 

 

  • This ‘ETERNAL SLEEP’ cannot be wished away which can be shown with the poem below:-

 

Eternal sleep

 

After our earthy sojourn,

We mortals traverse to a world unknown,

Where to – guesswork abounds,

Some think, few are welcomed to enchanting Heaven,

And the others to burning ‘ghats’ of hell are thrown,

Depending solely on earthy deeds or misdeeds,

Ledger of which are assiduously maintained and screened.

Death is inevitable, then why gets afraid?

Death  is a stark-reality, then why get sad?

When parting with our kin so dear, finally,

During life too, we experience death in small ways routinely,

The one who has seen the dawn of the day,

Will surely see the dusk of the day.

A mistaken sense of pride,

Egged on by mistaken sense of permanence of life,

Spurs us to cling to this life so tight,

That sometimes, we forget the imminence of our end.

Which is so near but seemingly so far away from sight.

Earthy inning is quite alluring,

Parting with worldly possessions so paining,

Yet, in life, we ought to adopt righteous course,

Why fear, accept the change of garb with courage and without remorse,

A life filled with inner freedom is helpful,

Engrave this idea, eternal sleep is sacred and peaceful

Welcome the eternal sleep when it comes naturally with

open hands,

For this end is not the end of cycle of life and earth,

But a continuity of a play played by earthlings,

And supervised from His Heavenly abode by Supreme-being;

the one and the only one by whatever name you mention him.

 

Harbans Khajuria

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3 Comments

Posted by on November 4, 2013 in Inner Thoughts

 

3 responses to “BIDDING ADEIU IS A PAINFUL EXPERIENCE

  1. Harbans

    November 5, 2013 at 2:50 pm

    PARTING FROM OUR DEARS IS A REALITY WE CAN NOT ESCAPE. A WISE PERSON WILL NEVER FORGET THAT IT HAS TO BE LIVED WITH. SPIRITUALISM BENT OF MIND REMOVES THE REMORSE THAT ENTAILS FOR THE SAME.

     
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    • Harbans

      February 26, 2014 at 12:34 pm

      Thanks and regards

       
 
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