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Is it okay to give up on dating and relationships?

25 Feb

Is it okay to give up on dating and relationships?

  • Mike asked 1 month ago

I’m 20 and I just don’t feel like it’s worth it. I feel like it’s too much risk for too little a reward.

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It is important that we decide what sort of life you want to have. For a meaningful life one will have to face the situations arising in life with courage. For courage to happen in our life we have to first think about what do we want in our life. What sort of a life partner we would like to have. For establishing and cementing our relationship it is a must that we should know a person thoroughly; his / her background – including the person concerned and family. 

If you want that you do not want to date the fellow and establish relationship it is your freewill. Nobody can compel you in this. This is your life and you are free to decide which and what you want to get out of it. And why not?

And if you still want to date the fellow then for the dating and establishing relationship meaningfully following should be taken into account by the concerned person. 

1. The person concerned should be known to you. If not prior knowledge should be made known through different sources. 

2. Having known the fellow; it is a must that the fellow concerned is compatible with your educational background. You have to spend your life with the fellow not for a short spell and then uncertain future. 

3. It should be borne in mind that dating is for familiarization. It is not for the establishment of a body relationship. Why body relationship before marriage? May be after this happening the other party leaves. There are the people who want  this thing to happen and that is their purpose of dating! 

4. Dating means to know completely the concerned fellow and let him / her know about yourself. 

5. No show offs on dating. 

6. Be and act like a person you are. Never overact or exaggerate. This may boomerang on you. Ultimately it may lead to uncertainty. 

And finally it is person concerned decision. Nothing should be done which may lower the self respect of the person.

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? answered 1 month ago

Of course not!

Finwie answered 1 month ago

Do whatever you want with your life. Dating isn’t for everyone.

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5 responses to “Is it okay to give up on dating and relationships?

  1. Hephzy

    February 25, 2014 at 10:08 am

    Of course Not. Relationship is the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to human beings. No matter what you have been through in your dating relationships, you can still get to enjoy it with the right partner. All you need is to sit down and take note of what you’ve been doing right and wrong in your past relationships. Correct the wrongs in your next relationship and you will find out that dating is great with the right person. Wish you all the best.

     
    • Harbans

      February 25, 2014 at 2:48 pm

      You are absolutely right; relationship is really a beautiful thing in our life. But that ought to be a true relationship based on equity and fair-play. It should not be a single track affair. A relationship is a pious association which makes us aware as to how we have to live in the society. Without relationship it is difficult to sustain.

      Thanks and regards

       
  2. Harbans

    February 25, 2014 at 12:49 pm

    W

    Our course you are right but to a certain degree. A relationship to be successful we have to tread very cautiously. It ought not be one way traffic. One party is exploiting the other with an ulterior motive; is that relationship enduring? How long this relationship can last? Though it is a fact that both the parties should know the strengths and weaknesses of each other yet correcting the weak areas is a correct way.

    Thanks and regards

     
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    • Harbans

      March 3, 2014 at 3:24 pm

      Thanks and regards.

       
 
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