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What is your state of mind when we are falsely implicated and also does destiny play a role in this?

10 Sep

What is your state of mind when we are falsely implicated and also does destiny play a role in this?


Sadly speaking, our predicament skyrockets when we are implicated in a innuendo in which we are not even remotely connected. Lack of any perceptible evidence but still some unscrupulous element presses for holding the other person responsible compounds matters. Sometimes an incident may not taken place at all yet still heartless individual adamantly sticking to the guns makes the matter worst. It goes to show when there is bad time then such things could happen which seemingly are unnatural. What a state of mind of such person who is blamed for doing nothing!

At our home, we must have witnessed the tussle between husband and wife one accusing other with infidelity sometimes may be heresy. If one is actually deceiving other then it sounds plausible reason for discord but when accusation is hurled/flaunted on your face on the basis of specious ground then a trust deficit is created – which many a times takes a worst dimension of separation for good thus leaving the children to fend for themselves.

What happens when somebody implicates you in some heinous crime and produces even false evidence which the Hon’ble Court believes to be correct. The effected person is incarcerated simply on concocted ground and fictitious evidence! The state of that person is like a fish in drying pond. He has got no alternative but to fight on for justice. If justice comes after 15 years then he has to face the hostile environment everywhere. If he is the sole bread winner then his family gets ruined.Such is the bad effect of false implication!. You must have come across such cases and gauged their state of mind.

In our offices too, there are the people who do not lose opportunity to insinuate others irrespective of the fact that you are responsible for it or not. Their main motto is to pull you down at the in front of others. This happened with me. My boss gave me an important paper on which some important improvement was to be undertaken. I did whatever I could and gave the paper back for further disposal. Next day, he asked for the paper again! All my persuasion. I was really dumb founded; I felt as though the earth underneath my feet had given way and I was to be sucked by that. Knowing well that losing paper of most sensitive nature having fare reaching implications. My pleadings had no effect on my boss. He told me that there would be thorough inquiry and I will have to face the music for this. I again beseeched him that even a person who has to be hanged is given one chance. I requested him to check his own cupboard. He threw his keys on the table and ordered me to do it. At that time, I offered my sincere prayers to my Creator because the future of my family and of my own was very delicately poised. I opened the cupboard. Sorted out the papers and found to my relief that that paper too was there! I did not utter even a single word to my boss but again thanked Lord for saving me and my honour; which if lost everything gets lost. This incident happened 25 years ago; whenever I reminisce this incident a shutter goes through my whole body – even now!

Conflict started when it was decided to put Pandu’s son to throne. This was opposed vehementally. Then treachery started. The evil design of Shakuni and Duryodhana made the matter more complex. These conflicting incidents lead to a war between Kauravas and Pandavas which Dhritarashtra all his 100 son got killed. This proves that insinuations and counter insinuations could spell doom..

Then there is destiny or quirk of fate which sometimes plays hide and seek with our life puts us in quandary. We can call it bolt from blues. Against this backdrop of destiny there is no option but to accept which has been destined because you can blame none nobody except your destiny. There is a story connected with a most prolific and compassionate king – King Harish Chandra. His name and fame for generosity was known to everybody. This was also hugely appreciated his compassionate nature. In order to test this, God appeared in person and asked for his kingdom along with everything that is in it. Without batting even an eye, he donated everything. Thus he left his prosperous kingdom with his wife and his son. They met with a lot of pain and penury during their exile. King and the queen had to do menial jobs in order to eke out a living for their existence. There are so many stories wherein they had to undergo one hardship after another including thievery. Then he was employed on the cremation ground for burning the dead bodies wherein he used to charge some money. As though all this was not sufficient, his son died of a snake bite. His wife came for the cremat6ion of her son. He asked for money. His wife had none. She tore apart her left out saree. All this noble gesture of the two made the God appear in persona and restored them the kingdom. It is evident that those who challenges even destinies come out unscathed ultimately.

 

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Posted by on September 10, 2015 in Inner Thoughts

 

5 responses to “What is your state of mind when we are falsely implicated and also does destiny play a role in this?

  1. derrickjknight

    September 10, 2015 at 7:21 am

    There is perhaps no longer-lasting pain than that of a false accusation, especially when the accuser is looking for someone to blame for his own shortcomings

     
    • Harbans

      September 10, 2015 at 7:52 am

      Yes, false-accusation leads to physical and psychological adverse affects. People should avoid resorting this sort of bad behaviour.

      My profound regards to you.

       
  2. wwwpalfitness

    September 13, 2015 at 7:12 pm

    Reblogged this on wwwpalfitness.

     
    • Harbans

      September 14, 2015 at 3:17 am

      Thanks sincerely. :))

       
      • wwwpalfitness

        September 14, 2015 at 9:01 am

        You are welcome

         
 
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