What course of action I should take when my boyfriend has left me saying I am not good enough now? (As asked).

What course of action I should take when my boyfriend has left me saying I am not good enough now? (As asked).

DECEPTIVE PERSON

From the question, it is evident that you made a grave mistake in choosing a friend who tells you that you are not ‘good enough’ now. Why did he cultivate friendship with you in the first instance? A good and reliable boyfriend is the one who stands by you always. Not the one who just leaves you whenever he fancies or chooses to do so at his sweet will without taking into cognizance the emotional pain, one sided snapping ties gives. And when the boyfriend, just point blankly, tells  his girlfriend that he does not like to continue the relationship since he finds her ‘not good enough’ which is obviously very unfortunate.

The so called friend of yours does not want to continue friendship with you may be due to the following reasons:-

He being a selfish and deceptive to the core, must have developed friendship with some other girl, just to dupe her too in the later stage as such people cannot be trusted at all.

Or he must have some ulterior motive or maybe you must not have submitted to his whims and that is why he does not see you ‘good enough’.

The words spoken by this unprincipled fellow are reprehensible and therefore saying good bye to such fellow is only alternative. Seemingly he has lost his mental balance.

Or reason may be any, which you certainly be knowing but how to come out of this is the moot point.be Difference do arise in any relation but these relationships should not spin out of control but sorted out within time and space.

The so called friend of yours does not want to continue friendship with you may be due to the following reasons:-He being a selfish to the core, must have developed friendship with some other girl, just to dupe her too in the later stage as such people cannot be trusted at all.

Now remember only the bitter moments with this unscrupulous fellow since remembering these moments will enable you to recollect the selfishness exhibited by this fellow.

I am of the view that a person who can tell you on your face that ‘you are not good enough’ can think of anything or transact anything good or worse.

Just try forgetting all the memories of this spineless fellow who does not know the importance of a friendship therefore does not deserve your friendship.

Ignore this inconsiderate fellow as though he does not exist for you now.

Do not have any connectivity with this fellow. If you are working in the same organization then maintain only working relationship and nothing else.

The world is wide and have several choices and opportunities and alternatives for everybody who is born here somebody is there for him/her. With this intention just develop friendship with somebody else but be careful; explain at the time convenient everything. If that fellow wants to develop friendship on the basis of equal footings then go ahead.

If  you can, you can forgive this fellow and forget the whole incidence of friendship as a bad dream. Though initially, it is a bit difficult yet a new start is called for otherwise you would not be able to transact anything tangible in your life.

There should be dynamism in life inactivity stops the forward march in life therefore whatever bad has happened cannot be revisited therefore putting a strong stopper to the bottle containing the gin is the only option.

For developing good friendship it is essential to understand each other, hence start again and that too with positive attitude. Bear in mind that end of road hardly means end of journey. It should just continue for destination you want for yourself. Establishing spiritual orientation may also help.

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  1. Friendship is a two way traffic. It is based on compatibility and on the principle of equality along with respect for each other’s point of views. One sided relationship is a recipe for doom. Understanding each other is essential.

    Do appraise the question and comments. I love your comments always.

    Regards

    HARBANS

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