MAINTAINING CONNECTIVITY

MAINTAINING CONNECTIVITY

IN ORDER TO GET SOMETHING TANGIBLE, WE HAVE TO HAVE SOUND CONNECT


Most of our relationships get a sound drubbing
If we don’t sort out points of difference within shortest span of time
Reason may be any – big or small, turns out to be most divisive
Creating a gaping hole in our relationship
Which festering sore later on becomes malignant
In fact difficult to heal if not attended within shortest timeframe
Without establishing meaningful contact
And not sorting things out right away
By sitting across the table
Or establishing connectivity
By throwing reluctance to the winds
In an atmosphere of give and take
Rather than breaking the connect altogether
Having our heart at the right place
Often-time thinking that the other party should take initiative anyhow..

We firmly reckon, fault lies on somebody other’s shoulders
Alas! Not yours
Since you’re nurturing oft held notion
Holier than thou stance
You stand on high moral ground than the other party
Thus clinging on to a feeling of superiority
A complex sentiment so egocentric
Which is the crux
Of breaking connection held dear thus for
So important thing is to create congenial condition
Volunteering for interaction from both sides will assuage state.

EVEN IN PITCH DARKNESS, WE CAN SEE LIGHT AND LOVE

ESTABLISHING CONNECTIVITY IS ESSENTIAL

IN SEARCH OF PEACE OF MIND – IT DOES NOT COME WITHOUT MINDFUL SEARCH

Paradoxically, it is strange but true that we break our long held ties with our dear ones simply owing to some innocuous reason. A cause, which could have been brushed under the carpet instantly but we want to latch onto it unreasonably. If this seemingly simplistic cause is not attended to then and there, it will turn out be a relation breaker after sometimes. This has happened in many a cases, therefore, need is to attend to the matter at the incipient stage itself. This is like not attending to a spark of the short-circuit, if not attended timely, can burn down the entire building and also building around too. Similar is the case with non-attendance of innocent looking issue which could be relation breaker.

Even Lord Vishnu incarnated in different Avtars in order to remove the evil prevailing in the society and ensure order.  To protect the righteous, to annihilate the wicked, and to reestablish the principles of dharma I appear on this earth, age after age. Bhagwad Gita. Without real and sincere connect, nothing tangible results.

Some of us stand on ceremony and don’t take initiative in sorting things out things instantly. The other side too maintains a stoic silence and ultimately this silence becomes reason for break in relationships, Opening the discussion and keeping the door open for mutual interaction opens vista of positive change which has stalled due to non-connect between the two parties.

Then question arises: why of all people ‘me; should take the first step and why not ‘he/she’ should take initiative? This back and forth attitude vacillation goes on in the minds of the parties concerned. All these contentious questions keep popping up in the minds of the persons concerned but alas! None of the two sides  take first step and come forward and establish connectivity so as to alleviate the current differences. That said, we should always keep in mind that differences could be sorted out only through establishment of connectivity. SILENCE on this stance could be dangerous.

Many of our relationships just vanish in thin air if stoic silence is maintained for a long time.  Sitting side by side across the table can only solve the pestering problem. Silence, I am repeating would prove to be counterproductive – small difference could snowball into breach of trust and trustworthiness thus creating a long chasm in the relationship which cannot be breached after a period of time. A stitch in time saves nine should never be forgotten.

Therefore, parties concerned should be sensitive enough to maintain a modicum of connectivity to sort things out as soon as possible rather than let it fester with a disastrous results which cannot be condoned when relationships go haywire.

TO UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER

 To establish our connectivity with each other just to convey our point of views just to understand each other. While we understand each other fully, all our differences get settled with goodwill and wellness prevailing all around.

TO IRON OUT DIFFERENCES

 There are people who try to come in our way by creating ill-feelings due to jealousy or rivalries. When we hve one to one tet-a-tet then differences are sorted out on the basis of give and take thus removing all misunderstanding in the process.

MOST OF OUR RELATIONSHIP BEAK DUE TO MISUNDERSTANDING

 It has been experienced that most of our relations just break because of misunderstanding due to one reason or other. This reason may be very minute which could be removed by connecting with each other.

CREATION OF COSINESS IN OUR RELATIONSHIP BY INTERACTION

 In essence, we can solidify the foundations of our relations and take to next ultimate level thru positive inter-connectivity and positive mindset.

SOMETIMES NOT CONNECTING WITH OUR WELL ESTABLISHE RELATION GO AWRY DUE TO NON-CONNECT

If we do not have positive connect with our friends or closest relation for a considerable periods of time then it may be construed as a sign of disinterest so can break relationship. Establishing connect can cement the bond. It is so in case of couples who break their relationship simply because they fail to connect for a considerable period of time creating a big chasm which cannot be filled easily.

  • If we do not pray or meditate sincerely with a focused mindset, we cannot establish our connection with God. For this to be reality, we have to follow a spiritual oriented lifestyle.
  • If a wound is not attended initially and left unattended, then, this wound may turn out to festering wound which may turn cancerous, difficult to heal even with the best medicare.   
  • Families do break due to non-connect of one earning member who left the family fabric due to a petty difference of opinion which could have been removed though interaction.
  • Communities lose their unity stance when a slightest difference is not attended within shortest timeframe.
  • Two countries remain at daggers drawn and may lead to war if initiative is not taken to sort out small things within short time.  

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11 thoughts on “MAINTAINING CONNECTIVITY”

    1. Sandeep Sir, thanks a million for your invaluable commentary. In fact whenever somebody like you establishes connectivity with us, it means something tangible is to be conveyed. I shall go to your website and get insightful information from the same.

      India presently is suffering from WUHAN VIRUS. You must have penned down something what are the consequences and outcomes…
      Thanks and regards.

  1. Dear Harbhans

    We have to have our connections back with full awareness, to know that noone is excluded, noone is higher or better as we all are sitting in the same class. Only arrogance is a matter of comparation, of being being “better”, ” “stronger” in all comparative ways. We should all be aware that we are One, as the drop in the water of the Ocean is one with the Ocean. Then slowly slowly humbleness develops, respect to all and everyone as all and everyone belongs to One God, the Ocean of all Consciousness of which we are a drop. Unity exists already but we have forgotten and rather separate (mind separates, soul unites) us from the whole.

    Thank you very much, dear friend Harbans 🙂
    All that is good for you
    Didi

    1. Didi sir, my gratitude for your pearls of wisdom as an add-on to my write-up on CONNECTIVITY which we all have to maintain with our roots so as to know ourselves. Factually, we have totally forgotten that we are part of our SOURCE and that SOURCE is always ready to assist us in any way possible but we as humans in our own shortsighted egocentric tendency forget that He has created everything and would do everything possible to maintain a healthy balance, but, we as humans do not be arrogant but be humble and perform our duties towards our families, for our society and while doing so be humble to the core. Whatever we have is attained here only and nothing is that we brought from our previous births and would not be taking anything to our next birth. It is our righteous Karma which would determine our next birth or MOKSHA..

      Our country require a huge blessings from our LORD since our country is passing through a difficult period due to COVID-19 pandemic. Only sincere connectivity with God can some modicum of peace and prosperity.

      Thanks and regards
      HARBANS

      1. Thank you, dear friend Harbans 🙂
        As Kabir also said: First comes humbleness, second: humbleness and third: humbleness. With sincere yearning towards our Father, receptivity, humbleness and many other divine virtues, will develop in us. The precondition of this is: To be true to oneself and see with critical eyes our own condition (just as we easily critisize our fellow-human beings). May God be merciful and bring an end to this strong suffering all over the world due to corona.

        Hugs and love, my friend 🙂
        Didi

      2. Your comments are always a source of inspiration for me and a guide to follow correct path. Yes sir, humbleness is one thing which sets us apart from others and it should be our precious ornament. We should in fact not forget that it is today only which is given to us by our Creator and tomorrow – nobody has ever seen. Lets be good as far as possible.

        With warm regards

        HARBANS

      3. Welcome, my friend 🙂
        As Sant Kirpal Singh expressed it very shortly when He was asked in a TV interview to say teaching of all competent Masters in a few words. Sant Kirpal Singh answered: “Be Good, Do Good, and Be One”

        Stay safe and heathy, my friend 🙂
        Didi

      4. The insightful words indeed. In fact the words of A GREAT MASTER SANT KIRPAL SINGH : BE GOOD, DO GOOD AND BE ONE are really worth following and enlightening ones. 🙂

        WITH WARM REGARDS

        HARBANS

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