ON CREATION OF HAPPY AMBIANCE IN THE SOCIETY

ON CREATION OF HAPPY AMBIANCE IN THE SOCIETY

Importantly, we all are prisoners of our mind and senses. When we are contented with what we have then we are happy because in that state of our thought, we do not jealousy for others since we do not compare ourselves with others. Whatever we are having through our sincere efforts, we are satiated.

WHILE WE ARE CONTENTED AND HAPPY, WE ARE AT THE PRODUCTIVE AND CREATIVE BEST

RIGHTEOUS ATTITUDE PAY DIVIDENDS

Happiness enhances our creative instinct, we are cheerful, delightful and blissful. In this state of mind, we are at our creative best; write poetry, reflect our thoughts through painting, pen down something unique and would like to be empathetic, humane and meet others needs. In this state of mind, we feel pain while others are around us are pain. With this positive mindset, we are at the productive  best and creative best in everything we put our hands on. While we are happy and contented, we harmonize ourselves by adjusting in whatever environment we are placed.  

BAD MOOD LEADS TO APPREHENSION AND DEPRESSIVE FEELINGS

Contrarily, when we are in bad mood or in gloom, everything is at the lowest ebb. Our thoughts are negatively oriented, the things around us seem emitting negative vibes. Nothing seem constructive in outlook, our creative zeal takes a huge drubbing. In depressive state of mind, the negativity like lust, jealousy, anger, egocentric tendencies, bitterness, narrow instincts are deep rooted in our psyche are at their highest pitch. In other words, defeatist tendencies . Even enchanting and constructive approach suggested by our friends and well wishers take back seat and forward looking ideas and ideals are taken as retrogressive and destructive.

DIFFERENCE IN PERCEPTION RESULTS IN WARS AND DISHARMONY

In essence, wars result when negative thoughts prevail. When each of the communities do not see eye to eye with each there is disharmony. When negative thoughts prevail between nations, there is war. Some think if we want to avoid war, we should be prepared for war – as a deterrence. But it is a fact  that if we want to have peace then we should always create situations and conditions to enhance peace and not war. We know the consequences of wars. There is death and destruction. It leads to ill feelings and skepticism between the nations. The nations rather than caring for social upliftment of their populace spend their all types of resources on amassing war materials. There are nations who spend maximum of their resources on  weaponry rather than take care of  educational pursuits of their masses, on indices of social up- gradation such as civic activism, inter-personal safety and trust, creating cohesion in the society, creating condition for gender equality along with adopt inclusive model of growth and development with nil discrimination.

OUR YOUNGER GENERATION SHOULD BE FED WITH POSITIVE THOUGHTS FOR THEIR HOLISTIC GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT

Woefully, it has been observed lately that we are look out for seeking reasons for creating trouble in the society. Even a non-issue could spin out of control when aired with negativism. If we want to be progressive in our outlook, we’ve to endeavor to enthuse our youth to be adaptive to change, become self-aware, be tolerant and shun narrow and parochial approach to any event or incident. Their mind should not be misted-up with pessimistic thoughts which may provoke them to take law in their hands and create mayhem in the society. Rather, we should provide them open forum where they can express their constructive ideas/point of views, patiently listen others  problems and try solving them while expressing their own. Persuasive approach rather than coercive one should be the hallmark. A society which feeds positivism in their youth is a progressive society. While doing so, care should be taken that nothing should be said and done against others religions which may aggravate situation and spin the situation out of control.

AVOID INTIGATION RATHER FOLLOW PERSUASION ROUTE

 It should be kept in mind that at the formative years of a person,  a small provocation or instigation to commit anti-social acts may lead to worst consequences for the youth and the society at large. It should also be kept in mind that our youth are the human resource and we have to mold them to be responsible citizens rather than regressive and off-putting or repulsive approach.

OUR YOUTH SHOULD BE SELF-REALZED

We have to make our youth self-realized who knows what are his potentials and what are his weaker areas and knows how best to bridge the gap between what he knows and what he does not. They should know that a person who is self conscious knows what are his needs and those of others. He does not lose his composure at the slightest irritant rather he listens with patience, acts coolly and knows his rights and duties as enshrined in the constitution. We want our youth to be forward looking, progressive in outlook, have zeal and enthusiasm to imbibe positive ideas and above all is not reactive and delusive since delusion is enemy number one of reason. in any situation and condition. In Bhagwad Gita it has been mentioned: delusion arises from anger. The mind is bewildered by delusion. Reasoning is destroyed when the mind is bewilderdd. One falls down when reasoning is destroyed.

WE SHOULD BE CONSCIOUS OF WHAT WE SAY AND NOT SAY – SHOULD NEVER EXCITE OTHERS SENTIMENTS


We should always be careful while expressing our viewpoints lest it hurts somebody’s sentiments. In other words, we’ve to be responsible for our thoughts and actions since we’ve to face the consequence of our actions. Nobody else should be held responsible for our Karmic deeds in this regard. It should be rooted in ourselves only because from ourselves we’ve to move to God’s connectivity.

INFLUENCE OF NEGATIVE PEOPLE ON US

There are people who do not want to see us happy. They want to see us sad and disheartened. They do not want that we should have our independent thoughts and actions. Divide and rule is their strength. Then they use the strength to exploit the gullible – make us angry, destructive and oppressive. Such people teach the common people to be more aggressive in order to get things done in their favour.

THIS EARTH IS NOT A PERMANENT ABODE FOR ALL OF US

One thing should never be forgotten by us and that is this life of ours is not a permanent. Its impermanency should make us realize that whatever time we live here on this earth, we should be happy, enjoying every moment which we have and also do not make others unhappy with our acts of omissions and commissions. When we are enthused, overflying with energy, we start looking after others around us too.

OUR ULTIMATE GOAL SHOULD BE GOD’S CONNECTIVITY

We should always realize that one of the best thing that will bestow us eternal happiness is God’s connectivity. This connective with our Creator cannot be acquired with somebody else help. The other person can only lead us to some distance but we ourselves have to cover the entire course ourselves to reach the SUPREME  SOUL. Thus create a happy ambiance for himself/herself and the society at large.

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7 thoughts on “ON CREATION OF HAPPY AMBIANCE IN THE SOCIETY”

  1. Fact remains, we should create sound ambiance for our society and particularly so for our youth who are our future.

    Do appraise and offer your kind comments.

    WITH WARM REGARDS

    HARBANS

  2. Good evening and thank you very much for your great article. my dear Brahminic mentor across the Oceans. The subject of “personal happiness” is one of the most manipulated, for good or bad reasons, in our pubic spheres and social media. When we come out of our infancy, where we are usually nurtured and protected by dear mothers and grandmothers, we confront a cold, competitive and often chaotic world. Even in a little bit less developed India, that realization must hit millions of middle class assumed or aspiring citizens in those giant cities teeming with tech wizards.
    Slowly we learn that in order to be really happy we should be more modest in our materialistic aspirations but very ambitious in our spiritual and cultural ones. As the great Patrick Macnee said to Diana Rigg in “The Avengers (I am almost sure that you did see that series as a child in Delhi) when they were enjoying a little impromptu picnic in the countryside by his Rolls Royce: “The little pleasures of Life…The ones that you can really enjoy.” Yes, we should learn to appreciate the company of our loved ones and share nice meals and conversation with them. One day they will be gone.
    We totally agree that : “we are all prisoners of our mind and senses.” If we are happy with what we have, as modest as it might look like, we will be happy. My dear Father Mario taught me a hard lesson one day in 1966 when he came back form an extended stay in prison for unpaid debts (a barbaric measure that is no longer used in Uruguay) He brought some simple gifts for my brother Gustavo and I. He received a yo-yo, which at the time was a furor in Montevideo and cost a few dollars. I received a package of collection stamps from all over the world, as I was an avid collector then, Sensing my frustration that I did not get the yo-yo, he took me apart and whispered in my ear. “The important thing is not the commercial value attached to an object, but the sentimental one you place in it.” He was absolutely right and I thank him for it.
    We also agree that the younger generations should be pulled out of the senseless God-absent consumerism that the social media and communication outlets promote.
    Before leaving ,I would like to agree that Negativism between nations is bad luck for all Humankind, Even though I am a firm supporter of the Ukrainian Nation, I agree, with President Macron of France, that Russia should not be humiliated. Too many people are talking loud and insulting everything Russian at present, which is foolish.
    In a blackboard in Marseille, I saw once a dictum that persisted in my memory.
    “Plus fait douceur que violence.” (You get more results with sweetness than violence)
    Let me foretell that in the upcoming months respected nations like India, that have avoided grandiloquent statements and kept a more prudent profile, will be asked to mediate in the Ukrainian conflict. Mark my words, master. A big hug. Arrivederci.

    1. Good evening Dr. Sir,

      I take this opportunity of thanking you for the nicely articulated and excellently explained with examples which only you have the aptitude to do so. It is learning experience indeed.

      In fact with reconciliation and on the principle of give and take we can sort out our differences. Violence leads to more violence. Ukrainians are suffering hugely though Russians too are not behind Ukrainians.

      Today is INTERNATTIONAL DAY AGAINST DRUG ABUSE AND ILLEGAL TRAFFICKING. DO appraise the write up whenever you have time.

      WITH WARM REGARDS AND WARM HUGS

      HARBANS

      1. Good morning and Happy Sunday. Do you agree that the Republic of India might play a pivotal and positive intermediary role between the warring factions in Ukraine in the near future?

      2. Good morning Dr. Sahib.

        Affirmative, I am sure GoI’s fence sitting approach will come handy in discharging its function as intermediator for creating positive environ in ending the long war between Russia and Ukraine.

        WITH WARM REGARDS

        HARBANS

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