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ARGUMENTS

ARGUMENTS

The main question is, whether any irrational argument could be won by anybody?

It is rightly been said that a sagacious person will prefer discussion over argument for that person knows that nobody can win an argument. It goes on and on. The end result of an argument is end of friendship / intimacy. It starts over a petty thing and slanging match just goes on nonstop. Neither side concedes defeat. Sometimes it leads to acrimony and bad blood. Arguments between the spouses, over small matter, just snowballs into a biggest flare up, occasionally breaking up the fabric of the household. A well-knit house alas! just breaks up.

Arguments for a seat in the bus goes on till after the journey to the destined place just ends and the poor chair just stares at the faces of the argumentative parties. Arguments over trifles results in fights resulting in disproportional consequences is seen every other day.

Arguments are the negative traits of not only humans but also that of the animal world. In fact, it can better be termed as animal like trait which unfortunately none wins finally. We must have witnessed the snarls between the two dogs over the possession of a bitch which just looks on helplessly. In this fight both the dogs just fight it out resulting in blood bath on both sides. Here too there is no perceptible winner!

Hence, it could be said, we can win a small quarrel but bigger one awaits and steers us in our face. This could be won not through arguments between ourselves but with accommodation and understanding besides ample cooperation at all times for living happily and in peace.

ARGUMENTS

Internal Strife spun out of control,

Incident which ought to have been swept under the carpet,

Has gone to the public domain,

Takes untold toll on both sides through fruitless arguments,

Starts from soft tinkering with words,

Over matter so trifling,

To a full fight resulting.

Spreading like fire untamed,

Engulfing even luckless around.

Arguments on a matter in the household,

Between spouses on a matter so insignificant,

Not controlled in time goes hurting,

To the wellbeing of home well knit.

Disagreeing with interviewer,

And sticking to the points stubbornly,

Thus burning the very bridge,

Which could have made him to cross over,
For cornering a lifelong career.

Just not budging even an inch,

Arguments with a person unknown,

Even Universal Truth so widely agreed,

Is not agreeable to the fellow in question!

Arguments with fastidious one is a waste of time,

Who knows only how an argument could be won anyhow!

Loses friends in hordes,

And earns enemies in the bargain,

While in power the ‘chair’ speaks for that fellow,

But when out of it,

Persons suffered at his hands take control,

And you can fathom what would be his fate,

For by-product of hate is only further hate,

That person realizes the consequence of his folly but too late,

He faces music of his own making now.

HARBANS KHAJURIA

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    • Harbans

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      My sincere thanks for your kind words.

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  36. dvaal

    January 23, 2016 at 2:52 pm

    I see your point -however, my husband and I argue frequently. We say our piece and then we move on. The difference is -we are dedicated to each other.

    I study animals continuously. All types have a hierarchy. So, most arguments are very short lived, because respect is fundamental. With two males fighting over a female -most males know quickly, when they are not ready. The fights always begin as a test -and the weaker one backs off most of the time. There are times it becomes deadly, but not usually.

    I liked this post, anyhow. It is important that we learn to communicate without arguing. When we do argue, forgiveness is essential. And, we should never argue over something so petty, as a bus seat. Good post -much needed advice!
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    • Harbans

      January 24, 2016 at 11:39 am

      Thanks a lot for your most valuable comments.
      Arguments are useful till such time these remain within confines of decency and within limits too. When we argue and keep in mind that other’s respect is remains paramount and maintained then that argument just vanishes without any trace of ill-feeling. I think, differences, if at all, should be ironed out but when children are not present at the scene; otherwise it will have negative affect on the impressionable minds.
      I is also pertinent to mention that slight argument(s) are better than keeping mum and disrupt ‘communicate’ it is more relevant in case of spouses. Give and take give us opportunity to come out of the piquant situation.

       
  37. Silver Screenings

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    You are so right about huge arguments and ruined friendships springing from simple misunderstandings or pettiness. This beautiful piece is an excellent cautionary tale. Thank you!

     
    • Harbans

      October 15, 2016 at 12:03 pm

      Thanks sincerely for your kind words. Compatibility is a two way traffic.

       

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