PEARLS OF THOUGHTS

WHEN LIVING IN A JOINT FAMILY, DIFFERENCES DO CREEP IN SOMETIMES

There is difference in opinion on variety of subjects. These differences should be sorted out on the basis of give and take after discussion in positive environments. Simmering differences is recipe for creating chasm which cannot be bridged if it is to simmer on. In fact lingering differences is recipe for breakdown of family fabric or cohesiveness.  It also affects general wellness of entire family.

PROVOCATION SHOULD NOT IMPACT OUR COMPOSURE 

Remaining silent when somebody provokes us is really very difficult for us.  While somebody provokes us by irrational or unethical or unreasonable behavior, we should not lose our equanimity since losing our poise amounts to virtually losing our peace of mind. Losing our self poise on provocation result in losing everything we have earned by way of goodwill thereby gaining negativity by way of stress and strain; very harmful for our further growth and development. Losing ourselves in the bargain, will divest us any prospect of self growth to facilitate holistic. For instance, scorching heat of the sun cannot have an effect on the abundance of water of  water body. Hence, maintaining our composure at all times makes huge difference and gives us peace, happiness and contentment as the byproduct.

FORGIVE WHEN IT IS OTHERS’ MISTAKE & ASK FOR FORGIVENESS WHEN IT IS YOUR MISTAKE

Importantly, in life, if we remain thinking that you are always right and others are wrong then you cannot have good relations with other members of the society. We tend to make mistakes ether deliberately or unintentional and when it is found that other fellow is wronged due to us then we should ask for forgiveness but care ought to be exercised that the same  mistake should not be repeated.

DECISIONS TAKEN IN HASTE OR IN ANGER ARE DISAPPOINTING

It is understood that decisions taken in anger, fear or in disturbed state of mind  never appropriate since disturbed in state of mind, our thoughts and intellect hardly work in unison for a final outcome.

NO PLACE FOR ANY SUSPICION IN LOVE

In essence, where there is true love, there is no place for misgiving since if there is suspicion, then, it is anything but love. We all are aware that when we feel affection for something or somebody wherein there is  not even an iota of apprehension  of any sort. Besides there is no expectation while we be in love with somebody.

HUMILITY AT ALL COSTS

Nothing should make us egocentric. In happiness or in sadness, in weal or woe, we should remain balanced. It should be kept in mind that we had not brought anything when we were born and will not be taking anything when we complete our journey on this earth. Humility or modesty or remaining reserve is the advice we should always follow.

INSULT  OF ANYKIND SHOULD NOT DISTRACT US

If somebody passes insulting or unreasonable remarks on us, we should not offer react thus creating a situation of no return Also, we should remain calm and composed and  never be disheartened since the unethical behavior is a bad karma and will never be forgiven.  

TAKING RISK PRIMARILY HELPS US FOR ATTAINING  ALL ROUND GROWTH  

If we remain fearing to take any risk in the pursuit of fulfillment of our mission, we cannot achieve anything substantial since fear creates artificial iron curtain thus stopping our further movement.

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